So I just got back from my very first Rotary trip and I am going to try and find words to tell everybody how amazing it was! In this post I will tell about meeting everybody and the first days in Cambodia
The trip started on the 21st of December 2013 when I woke up at 5:30 to catch the train at 7:10 only to figure out the train works on Thai time and it would only show up at 10:40. When I showed up at the train station I saw a blond boy (a rare sight believe me) and I knew there were other exchange students coming but I just ignored him because I thought he was too old to be an exchange student … oops…. When I found the people I did know he came to and I felt like a moron. All of them already knew each other because they were all together on the 1st trip that I missed because I needed to finish my school year so I took the time to get to know Momo (Taiwan) I had already met her at a Rotary event so I could sit with her and not feel like I knew nobody, Emily (USA) she is a very soft quiet person who seems to always smile, David(Slovakia) I discovered he is one of the craziest people I have ever met but her is funny and helpful to go with that, Feo(Finland) you can always talk to her she is an amazing friend , Frederik(Denmark) he is funny and caring and a bad ass who helps girls get down the hill safely when the other boys just walk past.
Then the train came and I met more of the students who had already been on the train for about 12 hours, Brandon F (USA) Brandon has a personality that can light up a room when he walks in he is the best, Brandon lee B (USA) he is quiet and in his own world be great when he wants to be, Taylor (USA)she is funny and caring and always there when you need her, Etienne ( Belgium) he is one of the most intelligent people I have ever met and can make u smile very easily , Claire (USA) she seems to know something about the world that no one else knows she seems so wise she is the animal whisperer and photographer , Sille (Denmark) she seems quiet but one you get to know her she is just as out of her mind as everyone else, Humberto (Brazil) berto is never ever seen without a smile except when he is acting like a zombie! He is amazing , Noemie (Belgium) noemie can make me laugh by just saying hello she is truly caring and funny and made my day almost every day, Isabel ( Mexico) she is beautiful and quiet and always having fun, Sammy(Taiwan) he is so cute out of everybody Sammy can speak the least English but he is so willing to listen when you speak and try and talk and kick ur bum in any game on earth, Rena (Japan) she has the best smile in this world ! she doesn’t say much but she is always looking flawless and smiling, Leah (Canada) she is in the own world and she doesn’t say much but she has this aura about her that she will always be there to help even if she doesn’t know you very well and Francois (Spain) fran is out of his A-mind he makes everybody laugh with his crazy stupid ways. Two hours later we had our last arrivals Ryan (USA) Ryan is always where the party is but he’s always in the deep conversations to, Miri (Mexico) he is the youngest of all of us and just a tiny bottle of bubbles and joy and love, Becca (USA) she cares and loves and takes care of everyone even when they don’t notice. So the bus ride started from Bangkok to a Hotel 15 min away from the Cambodian Border. When we got there we unpacked and then the students had a test about what they had learnt in the 4 months everyone had been here already. Pretty uneventful day except for meeting all the other students and having my orientation.
The next day we had breakfast and a lecture about how you need to keep your backpack in front of you and not on your back, how if they rob you should not fight back but just let them go or they will shoot you, how we should always stay in groups and keep an eye on everyone else’s stuff and all I could think about was “jip back to Africa we go”. We got to the boarder and sat around while some people’s visa’s got sorted out. Then we passed the boarder and some big boys from Europe seemed a bit nervous about all the things we were told that morning. We got on a bus and found out our tour guide spoke in mono tones and said “uummm yes” more than he should.
We made it to a very very big lake and got onto a boat. Then we started seeing the way people live and it broke my heart, they live on boats with a deck on them. Some people have a little floating house no bigger than most living rooms. Or guide explained that they could live of 1000 baht (R350) for almost 3 months. Then people started coming up to our boat on their little boats trying to beg for money by having little children with them holding snakes to try and impress you I felt like crying because of the danger those little tiny kids where put in so the parents could try and get money. Other kids would jump on the boat and give you a shoulder message until you gave them money then they would move on to the next person. Other kids jumped on the boat and tried to sell us water. Our guide told us not to feel sorry for them because they are happy where they are but I did not believe him they must want more from life.. That was one of the biggest culture shocks of the whole trip. After that we went to a temple where our tour guide told us about The Killing Fields a number of sites in Cambodia where large numbers of people were killed and buried by the Khmer Rouge regime, during its rule of the country from 1975 to 1979, immediately after the end of the Cambodian Civil War (1970–1975).
Analysis of 20,000 mass grave sites by the DC-Cam Mapping Program and Yale University indicate at least 1,386,734 victims of execution. Estimates of the total number of deaths resulting from Khmer Rouge policies, including disease and starvation, range from 1.7 to 2.5 million out of a 1975 population of roughly 8 million. In 1979, communist Vietnam invaded Democratic Kampuchea and toppled the Khmer Rouge regime. We saw a whole room full of human bones and saw so many pictures of how badly the people where tortured and I could not believe I had never heard about this or learnt about it in school. A very sad thing to learn.
We then went to the market to raise our spirits and we all got taught how to haggle with the shop owners. This is how it works: you ask the price, then you offer to pay half price and then work your way up to where you are both happy. We all got the hang of it and then the spending started. After that we went to dinner and then the hotel. Best hotel ever!! We had so much fun in that hotel.
There is way too much to tell in one post so I will tell each day in a new post *